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The dating journal that tells you something you don't already know.

Log the interactions. Track the gut feelings. Let the pattern show you what you keep missing.

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Good evening.

You raised a red flag on Bad For Me. Have you thought about what you're doing with that?

People I'm Seeing · 3

🌹The One?4 GREEN

8 logs · 2w

😏Jake from Hinge

4 logs · 4d

🚩Bad For Me2 RED

2 logs · 1d

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Recently Logged

Date with The One?, 5 Jun

Cooked at his, met the flatmate.

Date with Jake from Hinge, 5 Jun

Drinks. Funny but distracted.

Text exchange with Bad For Me, 4 Jun

Cancelled again, two hours before.

Text exchange with The One?, 1 Jun

Texted first, made a plan.

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first date energy, third date reality · knew within five minutes · kept making excuses for him · felt different this time · same type, different name · my gut was right · ignored the flag anyway · first date energy, third date reality · knew within five minutes · kept making excuses for him · felt different this time · same type, different name · my gut was right · ignored the flag anyway ·

01 — The Log

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Every date. Documented.

Texts, calls, gut feelings, the thing they said at dinner you're still thinking about at 2am. Log it in 60 seconds.

02 — The Reckoning

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Your gut. Was it right?

Rate how it felt in the moment. Come back later and say whether you were right. Over time you'll learn when to trust yourself.

03 — The Pattern

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What you keep choosing.

Log enough and the picture becomes clear. The types you gravitate toward, the moments you override your gut, the gap between what you notice and what you do about it.